Our automatic response is to chase when the “other” pulls away.What was once readily available is suddenly gone, and no matter how hard we try to regain our partner’s former affection, it now seems beyond our reach. They don’t need more time to figure out their emotions. The “hot” phase begins with a bang of overwhelming recognition. Bathed in newfound attention, flattery and flirtation spark a strong attraction for this person.
This is the core thinking of the partner who initiates hot/cold, and serves as their safety net to vulnerability. Because relationship uncertainty makes human beings yearn for stability.
For example, their most recent “If you’re having a conversation with another character, you’ll sometimes have to choose between one of several responses.
Sometimes, these responses will affect another character’s perception of you, which is indicated by an explosion of hearts (good) or a murky, black ink cloud (bad).
was produced by Game Grumps, a “Let’s Play”-style You Tube channel with 3.9 million subscribers.
It’s run by Arin Hanson and Dan Avidan, both of whom are known for their over-the-top, juvenile, shock-based senses of humor.